When we
headed out on our move from Georgia to Texas, my mom and stepdad gave my
daughter, Hannah, a “treasure box”. The
type of pretty display box you would buy from Kirkland’s with the brown metal imprinted
top and wooden sides with a sliding lock on the front. It was filled with handwritten cards, little
books, and some figurines that would always be remembrances of her grandparents
no matter how many miles they were apart.
Before both of their passings, we were fortunate enough to receive more
cards to add to the treasures. This
precious box has its very own special place on our entry foyer table.
One day when
Hannah was probably in fifth grade or so I noticed the box was missing. She had taken it upstairs to her room to
refamiliarize herself with its contents.
She had placed the contents of that precious box out on her bed. It was evident that Hannah needed them that
day in her own space close to her heart.
I
immediately saw the scattered contents and my heart sank. It was as if someone had drained my bank
account. This truly is no exaggeration
because those treasures mean the world to me and I would never be able to
replace them. Even though material things
in this life truly have insignificant value to me, on days when I want to call
my mom, I know I have her sweet cards to read to provide comfort and a little
bit of her presence.
This past
spring I read the book Treasured by Leigh McElroy. She begins her story by sharing about a
treasure box she received in the mail with her grandfather’s belongings and
what those treasures said about his life.
She goes on to ask an important question and that is what would be left
in your treasure box after you leave this world? What kind of life do you live and how do
people know you? What things or moments would they associate with you?
I thought
about my life and what I hope is placed in a treasure box I might leave behind,
more importantly the treasures I hope to place in the hearts of others, but I
gave more thought to the treasures of a sweet lady who was Hannah’s ninth grade
Sunday School teacher, Mrs. Marianne Prichard.
When Hannah
received a card in the mail from Mrs. Marianne introducing herself before her ninth
grade promotion Sunday, I knew that I would instantly love her – and I
did. She had a way with all the
girls. They knew she genuinely loved
them and they knew they could tell her anything - even things they might not
wish to share with their parents. She
and Jesus were their confidants. Mrs.
Marianne had the sweetest smile and the sweetest heart, but all the while she
was suffering with cancer. Through her
chemo/radiation treatments and her body that began to fail, she had a most
positive outlook and I looked at her with admiration – admiration of a woman
who either suffered in silence or was completely overtaken with the love of
Jesus because she knew the ultimate outcome of her final prognosis.
I think
about Mrs. Marianne’s treasure box, which would be filled with every color nail
polish that exists. She always polished
nails at the church fall festival and when we went to visit her at hospice
several days before she went to be with Jesus, her nails were done in beautiful
colors with a glittery finish. I think
about all the sweet cards and messages she sent to “her girls”. I think about a pillow case that was made for
her which described her to a “T”. It was
based on this poem:
“What
Cancer Cannot Do”
Cancer is so limited...
It cannot cripple love.
It cannot shatter hope.
It cannot corrode faith.
It cannot eat away peace.
It cannot destroy confidence.
It cannot kill friendship.
It cannot shut out memories.
It cannot silence courage.
It cannot reduce eternal life.
It cannot quench the Spirit.
And I think about the faces of each
girl who sat in the church pews at her funeral.
These things probably wouldn’t even begin to fill up Mrs. Marianne’s
treasure box. She was a treasure on
earth who is no doubt receiving her treasures in Heaven.
What’s in your treasure box?
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